I'm gay and i would really like to make him feel good so that we could both enjoy it. Also i'm sort of a quick comer, so if n e one has any advice on how to prolong it; All ears are open.I'm planing on having sex for the first time with my boyfriend and I need advice on wHat to do?
condom
lube
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and have fun :D
dana%26lt;333I'm planing on having sex for the first time with my boyfriend and I need advice on wHat to do?
The great things about same-sex relationships is that your partner has all the same equipment that you do. As with any sexual relationship, you need to learn what your partner likes and your partner should do likewise. Each person is different and wants to be done (or do someone) in a particular way.
As for safety...(dun, dun, duuuunnnnn) If you are unsure of your partner's infection status, use a condom no matter what. They make flavored condoms and lubricants for oral sex (the regular type taste terrible, well the flavored ones kind of do too.) If you plan to try anal sex, use a smooth condom (one without ';ribs'; or ';studs';), as the extra stimulation is unwelcome on the sensitive tissue that makes up the anus. Use plenty of water or silicone based lube (oil based lubes like Vaseline, Crisco, Hand Creams, or anything with the word 'oil' in it weaken condoms.) A condom will not only protect the wearer from STDs, but also prevent fecal matter from entering the urethra and potentially causing infections of the prostate such as prostatitis. Remember nothing can go too slowly into OR OUT OF the anus.
Be safe, and have fun.
If it's his time too, then remember he is probably worrying about everything as well....and assuming he likes you as much as you obviously like him, just trying your best will make him feel good.
Firstly if you are planning...or even not entirely against the idea of anal... then make sure you have condoms and water based lube....you might just get carried away in the awesomeness of it all %26amp; decide to try, so be prepared.
I would suggest doggy style as a good option for the first time, as it gives you both the ability to move and that can make the person being f*cked feel calmer about it....they can move away if they need/want to.
You would want to start with lots of caressing and kissing... then probably move on to a little oral... then go all the way.
I hope it's wonderful for you both....just try to relax..
When you feel like your getting to that point STOP.
Take a break, and kiss for a while.
Then proceed.
Also some guys stop and squeeze the base of thier penis when they feel the urge to ejactulate.
From what i've heard, it ';works like a charm';
=].
Good luck, stay safe, and WRAP IT UP.
Well I guess this ain't no different than how u last a long time with a chick.
What I do is do my quick load first. Sometimes she does it oral, or sometimes I do it vaginal. Then we play around with foreplay for a few minutes until I get all horny again. Then we go at it again and it takes a lot longer the 2nd time. I have even gone up to 4 times before. But that took me all night. Fun tho.
Wear a condom, bring girls over, so some real fun can happen,and if you get caought, atleast you are doing girls of some sort, so that would lighten of the mood of your family
ha the quick cumming will go away soon. . . after you start having sex you will not be able to stop and all the practice will prolong it.
Stimulate yourself to orgasm an hour or two before your romp. That will prolong your ';time'; with him.
Auntie Kookoo
Let him finish first if your a fast one.
Dont be silly,wrap your willy.
thats easy you be the bottom let him top then you oral him do yours last
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