Whenever i get home i eat even if im not hungry just coz im bored
how do i stop? its a sickness
HELP ME!How can i stop binging! I always eat when im bored I need help and advice on how to stop?
You cannot depend on will power to stop. You have to change your environment or you will fail. Need to remove the foods you binge on and change you schedule so that your down time isn't around food.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Advice from young and teen mothers? would you/have choose to have a baby at this age?
I'm 19 years old, in a steady relationship for more than 3 years, with a stable home and car, i'm thinking of having a baby within the next year.
Whats your opinion, would you have waited till you were older? Or are you happy with the age you chose to or are thinking of having a baby?Advice from young and teen mothers? would you/have choose to have a baby at this age?
You can do whatever you feel necessary. A lot of people decide to have children young, and I do not think that anyone should be looked down upon for wanting such a thing. I think if you were still under the age of 18 that you shouldn't be making those kinds of decisions (for the simple fact that a lot of people under 18 haven't grown up enough themselves).
I would never disown a friend who wanted to have a baby at even 14 years old, it's their body, their decision.
I currently do not have any children, but to be honest, I too would like to have children young. Maybe not at 20/21 but if I got pregnant at 19 I wouldn't think it was the end of the world.
I think that if you think you are well passed ready to have a baby and you are 100% sure about it that you should go for it.Advice from young and teen mothers? would you/have choose to have a baby at this age?
Well i personally am in the same situation as u i'm 18 in a relationship for 2 years have a car a home. But i wanted to go to collage and do something along those lines....
So i would think LONG and HARD about the decision and if you both want to and you don't want to go to collage (void if u've already gone to collage) Then why should it matter on what other ppl think...just be sure it's what u want and if your not married be preparedd for a break up (just in case)
I had my first at 18, I don't regret it, but I do wish I would have started a little later. I just don't believe in abortions becuz I had unprotected sex. I had alot of help, but I missed out on so much. Just hanging out with my friends, experiencing college on a campus, anything and everything. Babies are literally a full time responsibility, there is no putting them off for a few minutes to do anything, even take a shower, they want what they want, 5 minutes ago! I wouldn't trade my kids for anything, but let me just say how much easier it is now being older, married, seriously financially stable, and able to do more. I have just gone back to college 2 yrs ago, I am still taking a semester off to have baby, but then will go back full time this fall for nursing clinicals, but I have my husband who takes care of everything else. I'm not saying don't do it, or you shouldn't want it, I'm just saying from personal experience, make sure you have done the things you want to do before you get tied down with a responsibility like that, for the rest of your life! Good Luck!
I am younger than you
I am in a steady relationship, house, car etc.
I still study as much as I can
I love my daughters more than the world itself
but it's hard, it's very hard.
You need support from your family and friends. You need to be 100% financially stable. Luckily we both had a lot of savings and have and still do work extremely hard so our girls can have the best possible life.
If you feel ready now, then you can have children, but I would recommend waiting. Even just another year, and save everything you can, so that when the baby arrives, it doesn't hit as hard.
Good Luck
I had my 1st baby at 15 and would have liked to have had her at an older age, but would not give her up for the world. I actually planned my 2nd baby at the age of 19. I was married and decided that the time was right for another baby as both me and my husband were working and stable. He was born until i was 20 but I think its a great age, as you have gotten over the teenage partying stage (even though i never really had that) and you are still young enough to enjoy your child growing up.
If you feel that you are ready then go for it, it can take a while to conceive anyway.
i think if your in a loving, steady relationship then your age is perfect, whats does your boyfriend think is he ready also? im 20 years old, im not in a realtionship i dont even talk to the father, im 15 weeks pregnant and doin it very much alone with support from friends/family. if things had been different i would have waited and had a child with someone i loved, been finacially secure but i wouldnt change anything now, good luck with what you decide to do x
I did wait until I was a bit older and I am ecstatic about my decision. I was 27 when I had my son and am now pregnant with our second and last child who will arrive just a week or two after I turn 30.
I am very happy that I had 7 years with my husband, just the two of us. We were able to form a VERY solid bond and really come to know, love, and enjoy each other so much that we are certainly a team. We are in this together and we were and are sure that we both absolutely wanted this. We look forward to our golden years when we can again enjoy being alone together and just enjoying each other but in the meantime we both love being parents.
I met my wife Amber when we were both 11 years old. We were best friends and started dating at age 15.
She got pregnant with my child when we were 18.
We thought it was a mistake, but when little Blake Ryan came into the world, we were completely blessed.
After Blake turned 2, Amber and I were 20.
We got married.
1 year later, Blake was 3, and we had another son named Caleb Matthew.
And now it's four years later. We have a 2-year-old named Preston Michael and twins on the way.
So, my point is, we were a little younger than you are and thought it was the worst mistake we could ever make.
But once you hold that little baby in your arms, you know, right then, ';I'm ready. This is my child, and I'm ready to take care of him/her for as long as he/she needs me.';
- - - Alex
If you are not allready pregnant, PLEASE wait til you are older!
My baby was a surprise when I was 24 and while I love and adore her, I wish I could have had her at a later age when I was more prepared, both financially, finished with school, etc etc.
A baby turns your whole life around. 24 hours a day, it is not about you, but about your child. Your options become a lot more limited.
Wait until you are done figuring out who YOU want to be, then have a baby.
You seem to have your life stable for kids and if you feel like your ready to become a mother I say go for it I don't think age matters just as long as you feel your ready for the responsibility that comes with it. Just think about it and talk to your partner because you may be ready but he might not. Don't rush it. Good Luck Deciding :)
me and my boyfriend decided to try for a baby when i was 20. we hadnt been together as long as you, didnt have our own place.
im now 21, my baby is nearly 5 months old, we have a perfect little house (rented), i start uni in sept, although that might be hard work with everything i will have to juggle.
its completley the best decison weve ever made, our baby is fantastic, and was just meant to be!
I honestly love my kids to death, but I would have waited. I was younger than you, but still wish in the back of my mind that I waited. Good luck, and I am sure you will be happy with your decision.
i was in a stable relationshp got accidentily preg at 19 n my partner walked away so i would not recomend it just yet i would hold it off as long as poss and enjoy ur life 4 nw =]
no never,a girl gets fully mature physically at 21,so i dnt think so,that u shud plan for a kid now
no never i would neer have a kid at 19 i would hav a child at the same age as my mother (well try) at about 21-22
Whats your opinion, would you have waited till you were older? Or are you happy with the age you chose to or are thinking of having a baby?Advice from young and teen mothers? would you/have choose to have a baby at this age?
You can do whatever you feel necessary. A lot of people decide to have children young, and I do not think that anyone should be looked down upon for wanting such a thing. I think if you were still under the age of 18 that you shouldn't be making those kinds of decisions (for the simple fact that a lot of people under 18 haven't grown up enough themselves).
I would never disown a friend who wanted to have a baby at even 14 years old, it's their body, their decision.
I currently do not have any children, but to be honest, I too would like to have children young. Maybe not at 20/21 but if I got pregnant at 19 I wouldn't think it was the end of the world.
I think that if you think you are well passed ready to have a baby and you are 100% sure about it that you should go for it.Advice from young and teen mothers? would you/have choose to have a baby at this age?
Well i personally am in the same situation as u i'm 18 in a relationship for 2 years have a car a home. But i wanted to go to collage and do something along those lines....
So i would think LONG and HARD about the decision and if you both want to and you don't want to go to collage (void if u've already gone to collage) Then why should it matter on what other ppl think...just be sure it's what u want and if your not married be preparedd for a break up (just in case)
I had my first at 18, I don't regret it, but I do wish I would have started a little later. I just don't believe in abortions becuz I had unprotected sex. I had alot of help, but I missed out on so much. Just hanging out with my friends, experiencing college on a campus, anything and everything. Babies are literally a full time responsibility, there is no putting them off for a few minutes to do anything, even take a shower, they want what they want, 5 minutes ago! I wouldn't trade my kids for anything, but let me just say how much easier it is now being older, married, seriously financially stable, and able to do more. I have just gone back to college 2 yrs ago, I am still taking a semester off to have baby, but then will go back full time this fall for nursing clinicals, but I have my husband who takes care of everything else. I'm not saying don't do it, or you shouldn't want it, I'm just saying from personal experience, make sure you have done the things you want to do before you get tied down with a responsibility like that, for the rest of your life! Good Luck!
I am younger than you
I am in a steady relationship, house, car etc.
I still study as much as I can
I love my daughters more than the world itself
but it's hard, it's very hard.
You need support from your family and friends. You need to be 100% financially stable. Luckily we both had a lot of savings and have and still do work extremely hard so our girls can have the best possible life.
If you feel ready now, then you can have children, but I would recommend waiting. Even just another year, and save everything you can, so that when the baby arrives, it doesn't hit as hard.
Good Luck
I had my 1st baby at 15 and would have liked to have had her at an older age, but would not give her up for the world. I actually planned my 2nd baby at the age of 19. I was married and decided that the time was right for another baby as both me and my husband were working and stable. He was born until i was 20 but I think its a great age, as you have gotten over the teenage partying stage (even though i never really had that) and you are still young enough to enjoy your child growing up.
If you feel that you are ready then go for it, it can take a while to conceive anyway.
i think if your in a loving, steady relationship then your age is perfect, whats does your boyfriend think is he ready also? im 20 years old, im not in a realtionship i dont even talk to the father, im 15 weeks pregnant and doin it very much alone with support from friends/family. if things had been different i would have waited and had a child with someone i loved, been finacially secure but i wouldnt change anything now, good luck with what you decide to do x
I did wait until I was a bit older and I am ecstatic about my decision. I was 27 when I had my son and am now pregnant with our second and last child who will arrive just a week or two after I turn 30.
I am very happy that I had 7 years with my husband, just the two of us. We were able to form a VERY solid bond and really come to know, love, and enjoy each other so much that we are certainly a team. We are in this together and we were and are sure that we both absolutely wanted this. We look forward to our golden years when we can again enjoy being alone together and just enjoying each other but in the meantime we both love being parents.
I met my wife Amber when we were both 11 years old. We were best friends and started dating at age 15.
She got pregnant with my child when we were 18.
We thought it was a mistake, but when little Blake Ryan came into the world, we were completely blessed.
After Blake turned 2, Amber and I were 20.
We got married.
1 year later, Blake was 3, and we had another son named Caleb Matthew.
And now it's four years later. We have a 2-year-old named Preston Michael and twins on the way.
So, my point is, we were a little younger than you are and thought it was the worst mistake we could ever make.
But once you hold that little baby in your arms, you know, right then, ';I'm ready. This is my child, and I'm ready to take care of him/her for as long as he/she needs me.';
- - - Alex
If you are not allready pregnant, PLEASE wait til you are older!
My baby was a surprise when I was 24 and while I love and adore her, I wish I could have had her at a later age when I was more prepared, both financially, finished with school, etc etc.
A baby turns your whole life around. 24 hours a day, it is not about you, but about your child. Your options become a lot more limited.
Wait until you are done figuring out who YOU want to be, then have a baby.
You seem to have your life stable for kids and if you feel like your ready to become a mother I say go for it I don't think age matters just as long as you feel your ready for the responsibility that comes with it. Just think about it and talk to your partner because you may be ready but he might not. Don't rush it. Good Luck Deciding :)
me and my boyfriend decided to try for a baby when i was 20. we hadnt been together as long as you, didnt have our own place.
im now 21, my baby is nearly 5 months old, we have a perfect little house (rented), i start uni in sept, although that might be hard work with everything i will have to juggle.
its completley the best decison weve ever made, our baby is fantastic, and was just meant to be!
I honestly love my kids to death, but I would have waited. I was younger than you, but still wish in the back of my mind that I waited. Good luck, and I am sure you will be happy with your decision.
i was in a stable relationshp got accidentily preg at 19 n my partner walked away so i would not recomend it just yet i would hold it off as long as poss and enjoy ur life 4 nw =]
no never,a girl gets fully mature physically at 21,so i dnt think so,that u shud plan for a kid now
no never i would neer have a kid at 19 i would hav a child at the same age as my mother (well try) at about 21-22
Advice Needed- How far up the ear would cartilage piercing look best for a guy?
I was wondering how far up the ear would look the best and be the hottest for a guy getting his cartilage pierced?
I was just curious because I want to get more piercings in my ears and I don't think I want to do a second set on the lobes so I was thinking about the cartilage.
I am 24 and have a skater/rocker look by the way, which may help with it.Advice Needed- How far up the ear would cartilage piercing look best for a guy?
im a guy im almost 18 and i have 2 piercings in the cartlidge i have an industrial which is a long barbel that come from the top of your ear to the middle
i had a rook piercing which looks like that:
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en鈥?/a>
and yesterday i got my conch pierced and i love it it hurts cause its fresh and i cant sleep on my left side cause thats where the piercing is but its worth it
this is an industrial : http://z.about.com/d/tattoo/1/0/s/i/1/ea鈥?/a>
conch:http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h217/s鈥?/a>
rook:http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en鈥?/a>
also for the industrial instead of the barbel you can wear 2 hoop rings
the guy that was piercing mine told my that it somehow will help with the healing
and as for the price i paid from 20-40 $ per each
( not including the cost of the jewelry )Advice Needed- How far up the ear would cartilage piercing look best for a guy?
As far as I can tell, most girls don't find that cool anymore. Its your ear to do what you want to with it, but think carefully. I do get though that it fits in with your look. But,. It can prevent you from getting a job because of appearance or safety. ( I work in a nursing home and certain piercings have to be removed because the residents could accidentally grab onto them and tear skin. ) Even after taken out, the scar is often very visible, forever. Your ear could look like someone chewed off the ends when it heals if you had to much piercings. Thinks twice, then think about it again. You won't always want the ';skater/rocker'; look.
You might consider getting an Industrial bar. It goes from the inside corner to the outside edge of your ear and it a bit heftier than getting the basic cartilage piercing. It is a double piercing so you pay for two holes, mine was $50 with a return customer discount so if you want to do that then be prepared to pay more. You can do whatever you want to do. Go talk to a piercer, ask about the different spots that would look good from the professional view since they know how something will lay. I love, love, love my Industrial. I think you might like it.
Honestly, it doesn't depend on what your style or age is. How good it'll look %26amp; how far up the cartilage piercing will be depends on how much your ear cartilage folds over towards the top.
Ex:
http://www.photoshopwidows.org/images/Ri鈥?/a>
Her ear cartilage folds over a lot, so a cartilage piercing wouldn't look good so high up. If you get it pierced, the piercer will mark it in the best looking %26amp; safest location if you go to a legit place. =]
get your tragus pierced or small gauges, those look best .
in my opinion at least.
I was just curious because I want to get more piercings in my ears and I don't think I want to do a second set on the lobes so I was thinking about the cartilage.
I am 24 and have a skater/rocker look by the way, which may help with it.Advice Needed- How far up the ear would cartilage piercing look best for a guy?
im a guy im almost 18 and i have 2 piercings in the cartlidge i have an industrial which is a long barbel that come from the top of your ear to the middle
i had a rook piercing which looks like that:
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en鈥?/a>
and yesterday i got my conch pierced and i love it it hurts cause its fresh and i cant sleep on my left side cause thats where the piercing is but its worth it
this is an industrial : http://z.about.com/d/tattoo/1/0/s/i/1/ea鈥?/a>
conch:http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h217/s鈥?/a>
rook:http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en鈥?/a>
also for the industrial instead of the barbel you can wear 2 hoop rings
the guy that was piercing mine told my that it somehow will help with the healing
and as for the price i paid from 20-40 $ per each
( not including the cost of the jewelry )Advice Needed- How far up the ear would cartilage piercing look best for a guy?
As far as I can tell, most girls don't find that cool anymore. Its your ear to do what you want to with it, but think carefully. I do get though that it fits in with your look. But,. It can prevent you from getting a job because of appearance or safety. ( I work in a nursing home and certain piercings have to be removed because the residents could accidentally grab onto them and tear skin. ) Even after taken out, the scar is often very visible, forever. Your ear could look like someone chewed off the ends when it heals if you had to much piercings. Thinks twice, then think about it again. You won't always want the ';skater/rocker'; look.
You might consider getting an Industrial bar. It goes from the inside corner to the outside edge of your ear and it a bit heftier than getting the basic cartilage piercing. It is a double piercing so you pay for two holes, mine was $50 with a return customer discount so if you want to do that then be prepared to pay more. You can do whatever you want to do. Go talk to a piercer, ask about the different spots that would look good from the professional view since they know how something will lay. I love, love, love my Industrial. I think you might like it.
Honestly, it doesn't depend on what your style or age is. How good it'll look %26amp; how far up the cartilage piercing will be depends on how much your ear cartilage folds over towards the top.
Ex:
http://www.photoshopwidows.org/images/Ri鈥?/a>
Her ear cartilage folds over a lot, so a cartilage piercing wouldn't look good so high up. If you get it pierced, the piercer will mark it in the best looking %26amp; safest location if you go to a legit place. =]
get your tragus pierced or small gauges, those look best .
in my opinion at least.
Monday, August 23, 2010
I am relocating with work from Australia to mexico. Does anyone have any expert and advice on relocation costs
I am a single person with basic furnishings. Could someone post me some answers on the costs involved in moving to Mexico. I think my ioss may pay for this transfer, but not quiet sure. How long does it take before my things get to me and what am I really looking at when it comes to costs.
Thanks everyone!
Kind regards
Jacqueline
Aztec WarriorI am relocating with work from Australia to mexico. Does anyone have any expert and advice on relocation costs
If you are relocating with your employer you should be able to ask them. Most employers have a human resourses or relocation staff to assist with all the questions that must arise when these transfers occur.
Thanks everyone!
Kind regards
Jacqueline
Aztec WarriorI am relocating with work from Australia to mexico. Does anyone have any expert and advice on relocation costs
If you are relocating with your employer you should be able to ask them. Most employers have a human resourses or relocation staff to assist with all the questions that must arise when these transfers occur.
Advice on washing machine products?
My husband and I have moved from Europe to the US 6 months ago and we are both really reacting to the products for washing clothes. I have tried Gain, Surf and Woollite so far. Does anyone know any other products I could try?Advice on washing machine products?
What kind of reaction are you getting? If your skin is reacting to the soaps, try Ecos Free and Clear soap, or Method Free %26amp; Clear soap. Either one will help with the allergic reaction. They are also both biodegradable and good for the environment.
http://www.amazon.com/Earth-Friendly-Pro鈥?/a>
http://www.amazon.com/Laundry-Detergent-鈥?/a>makeup base
What kind of reaction are you getting? If your skin is reacting to the soaps, try Ecos Free and Clear soap, or Method Free %26amp; Clear soap. Either one will help with the allergic reaction. They are also both biodegradable and good for the environment.
http://www.amazon.com/Earth-Friendly-Pro鈥?/a>
http://www.amazon.com/Laundry-Detergent-鈥?/a>
Our new landlord wont sign existing damages paperwork with us but still wants our deposit! Advice?
We moved in 3 weeks ago, and he gave us a week to return the paperwork concerning anything wrong with the house. We found many things wrong, but he has not signed the paperwork, or come over to do a walk-through. The deposit is $1600, which we are paying in 4 monthly payments. Should we give him the deposit? I am worried he will blame us for existing damages and try to keep our money. We already signed the lease and moved in, so leaving is not an option.Our new landlord wont sign existing damages paperwork with us but still wants our deposit! Advice?
Take pictures immediately with date stamps on them. Make two sets. Send one set to him with a certified letter saying that, since he refuses to do a move-in walk thru with you, this is a detailed list of the damages and informing him that you will not be responsible for these damages.
Make sure you keep a copy of the letter and the set of pictures. If the landlord tries to keep your deposit later you'll have excellent evidence when you sue him.Our new landlord wont sign existing damages paperwork with us but still wants our deposit! Advice?
Lucky you to have a landlord that takes security deposit in payments spread out over 4 months. The walk through should have been done when you moved in. Call and talk to him and see if he'll set up an appointment to do a walk through. I'd go ahead and tell him he isn't getting any more of the deposit until this is done. This might motivate him. Do continue paying monthly rent on time.
Take pictures before you live there long. Tell him you aren't paying the deposit until he signs the paperwork. That a heavy duty deposit for a place that should have been renter ready. and wasn't.
In addition to the two very good answers above, check your state landlord/tenant laws to see if they address your issue.
I would take pictures at this point to document what there is. And I would let him know that he needs to sign it before you can complete the deposit portion of your lease. If necessary you can call the city to see what your rights are in this matter.
Take pictures and don't give him the deposit until he signs the paperwork.
Take pictures immediately with date stamps on them. Make two sets. Send one set to him with a certified letter saying that, since he refuses to do a move-in walk thru with you, this is a detailed list of the damages and informing him that you will not be responsible for these damages.
Make sure you keep a copy of the letter and the set of pictures. If the landlord tries to keep your deposit later you'll have excellent evidence when you sue him.Our new landlord wont sign existing damages paperwork with us but still wants our deposit! Advice?
Lucky you to have a landlord that takes security deposit in payments spread out over 4 months. The walk through should have been done when you moved in. Call and talk to him and see if he'll set up an appointment to do a walk through. I'd go ahead and tell him he isn't getting any more of the deposit until this is done. This might motivate him. Do continue paying monthly rent on time.
Take pictures before you live there long. Tell him you aren't paying the deposit until he signs the paperwork. That a heavy duty deposit for a place that should have been renter ready. and wasn't.
In addition to the two very good answers above, check your state landlord/tenant laws to see if they address your issue.
I would take pictures at this point to document what there is. And I would let him know that he needs to sign it before you can complete the deposit portion of your lease. If necessary you can call the city to see what your rights are in this matter.
Take pictures and don't give him the deposit until he signs the paperwork.
Advice from people involved in careers that took 2 years or less training?
Hey, I need a little advice from people who have careers that only took 2 years of less to train for. Maybe you went to school at any random technical college or community college. Maybe they have some special, designated places for training for specfic career choices.
I just need some ideas of decent paying jobs that only take 2 years or less to train for. If you are person who has one of these type of careers, let me know what it is that you do and are you living comfortable doing whatever it is.Advice from people involved in careers that took 2 years or less training?
Some career choices that require 2 years training or less are LPN (nurse), graphic designer, truck driver, plumber, electrician, body work technician, etc.,
I just need some ideas of decent paying jobs that only take 2 years or less to train for. If you are person who has one of these type of careers, let me know what it is that you do and are you living comfortable doing whatever it is.Advice from people involved in careers that took 2 years or less training?
Some career choices that require 2 years training or less are LPN (nurse), graphic designer, truck driver, plumber, electrician, body work technician, etc.,
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